Dear Daniel,
As a dog myself, I can confidently say that I’m friends with two cats. Well, one is my friend, and the other tolerates me. He seems to be warming up to me since I quit trying to lick him in the face. In all seriousness, dogs and cats can get along, but it depends on the temperament of the animals in question. Puppies and kittens who grow up together usually learn to get along right away. Introducing a new pet to the mix is a little tougher, but it’s possible if you choose the right pairing.
The fact that your fiancée doesn’t have a new dog yet makes matters easier. When you adopt a new dog, you can give the shelter a heads-up that you need one that gets along with cats. Generally, dog breeds that have a high prey drive, like terriers, aren’t the best fit for cohabitating with cats. It all comes down to individual personality, however. Cats tend to get along best with laidback dogs that are more likely to pass out on the couch all day than chase them around the house. A hyper or barky dog is more likely to make your cat want to crash on the neighbor’s couch while they look for a new place.
When you think you’ve found a dog that might be a good fit, introduce the two animals gradually. When they first meet, make sure the cat is at the dog’s eye level, so they’re not too intimidated. Make sure someone has a firm grip on each animal to avoid possible negative interactions that’ll take longer to come back from. Keep interactions short and positive, offering a reward after each one. You can also try feeding them near each other, so they associate something fun with each other’s presence.
Avoid leaving your dog and cat alone together until they’re already relaxed and comfortable with each other. Over time, it’s likely that they’ll get along swimmingly. Some dogs and cats even like to play or sleep side by side.
Let me know how your dog-finding efforts turn out!
– Doctor Dog
